'很多时候我们就是在拥有后把珍惜给遗忘了，觉得自己拥有是理所当然的。可是这就是导致尼失去该事/物/人的主要原因。当你把珍惜给忘记了后，你就会忘记了付出；忘记了付出，你就会忘记了他/她/它的重要性。失去了，才发觉原来他/她/它在你人生中很重要… 可是，一切都已太迟了'
真的一切都已太迟了吗？你所为的太迟是指你的容忍度到了极点吗？ 如果你说她在你人生中很重要的话，那不管发生什么事，她都还会是你的最爱！就好像妈妈，就算她怎样不对都好，你还是会爱她，呵护她，疼爱她，甚至也会呆在她身边，直到永远。而不是等到她去世了，你才来说要爱她，要照顾她。等到妈妈去世以后，这才叫一切都已太迟了。
女朋友很兰，还可以找过，但如果你真的‘爱‘上这兰女人，而且你真得非常非常的爱她的话，你还是会傻傻的呆在她身边的。为什么我这么说呢？
我有一位朋友，不管她老婆对他有几坏，甚至打他，但他都没有半句埋怨，因为他爱她。这才叫做爱情~ 有人说他傻老，有人甚至叫他离婚，但他不要。因为，他在等着他老婆改变的那一天，等着他老婆回头看他一眼。
经过风风雨雨的爱情，永远都会董得对方，珍惜对方。因为他们知道失去人生中很重要东西的滋味是很痛苦的。
人往往都在失去后才董的珍惜。这是真的！
但
迟不迟 不是问题，问题是你还要不要。
麻木的人终有一天会醒过来去珍惜她所爱的人。希望她所爱的人，依然还爱着她。
上帝只能把你们拉在一起，但能不能变成情吕，决定在你们手上。
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我支持你说讲的!! "迟不迟 不是问题，问题是你还要不要?"
ReplyDelete如果你真的很爱那个女人,你应该回头看看你所爱的她!而不是在逃避那些多余的问题!!只要你曾经很努力的付出过,你是一定会有成就的!!如果你是生意人,你已经是成功了一半,可是你要选择放弃你的生意还是继续努力地加强是看你要不要!!做人何必要斤斤计较,只要双方都能够开心的在一起那一切的阻碍算得了什么?
曾经，
ReplyDelete我们都很天真。
曾经，
我们都充满了理想，愿望，希望。
当时，
我们都很重视彼此的感受，
感受，
我们的高兴， 忧愁， 失望， 伤心，
都能够一一传达。
一年后，
大家各奔前程，
做工和读书，
话题，所关心的都不再。
心情，
兴奋， 失落， 沉默，
都很表面化了。
感情也慢慢地淡了下来。
生活的压力，工作上的不顺利使我，
我开始对她的脾气表示不满， 失去原来的耐性， 原来的千依百顺， 也常以吵架骂架结束。
心中是很珍惜，很喜欢，很想对她付出所有，
可是，
自己已经变质，
就好像削了皮的苹果，不再是个固定因数。
今天的我，
好想， 好想， 好想象以前那样和她开开心心的度过一天。
只是往事已不再。
那我再告诉你一句话… “不是你要不要的问题，是你能不能要的问题。” 不是不爱，而是太多事情是我们改变不了、阻止不来。 一只狗，一只猫；怎么放都不会成为一对。 也许，就算！有奇迹，狗和猫能一起相处… 那是万分之几呢？ 今天一门生意，要你把所有资产都丢进去投资；可是又不能保证能得到回酬，你会不管一切地把你一生的资产丢进去赌一赌“命运”吗？
ReplyDelete再说出任何一句话之前，要三思；我再作出这样决定之前，也想了好久、挣扎了好久。 我也不好受。
i agree wat u say again..sometimes we will only start think back for the past when we lost all of it alry..
ReplyDeletein this world..there are nothing is late...only see we want to do it or not..
sometimes, if the relationship going too long..the partners will start feeling boring with us alry and that make the relationship have a foot stop
when they lost the relationship alry..they will only start regrade what they have done...but that alry really late..
why they cannot care about the relationship before it to late??
why must us go through these kind of sadness process??
i understand what posted in my blog. i guess we cant be the 0.001% of cat n dog. well, we still can be best friend. yy said 分手快乐。so i guess she is right^^
ReplyDeletenice to be with u in such a short period.
From my point of view, you shouldn't use the story of 'A Dog & A Cat'as an example to explaining your love to someone else. That's extremely irritating!! Although you got your points here, that only represented we, HUMAN BEING are just alike ANIMAL. Can you get the point? Cite you an instance, do you think a dog and cat can become scientists? Can they become like one of us? That's too ridiculous, isn't it? You're a human being, a completely normal human who have emotions of joy, sorrow, reverence, hate and love besides can think rationally, unlike those animals. By the way, a dog and a cat can become friends in reality. This is true because I saw it in an Astro channel when I was still small. Even there is only 1%, it is up to you whether you want to give it a try! Let's say you are given this options according to your current bad situation, which one you will select? If you do the operation, the chance of surviving is only 1% but if you don't take the operation you will left with zero percent to survive. Will you do the operation?
ReplyDeleteBelieve me, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE unless you're the one who choose to withdraw it!!! Miracle can happens at anywhere in anytime!! You just only need faith with you!! You will never know what might happen to you in the next day of your life, why don't you learn to appreciate something before it is too late to capture it back. As for the investment, there are many types of investments we can select to venture in it. Some are based on your experiences but mostly, your luck!! We ain't talking about luck here. Hehehe..
duh... you're the one who is ridiculous. Cat & Dog only an "extract", doesnt mean we are like cat & dog. I wonder how you get into UMS. DUH..
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